Everybody knows that single life is different with married life. Some people like single and some like married. Their different: single life has more freedom than married life; single life has freedom in economy; single life’s responsibility more freedom than married life. First, single life’s activity more freedom. Single people don’t worry about what time should go home when they do activities. My friend, Chen who is a singe is a pretty girl. One day, she’s co-work had a birthday party and invited her. She went to party and was so happy. At one o’clock in the morning, my phone was ringed.
I answered the phone, she’s mother asked me that where is Chen. She worried her daughter because Chen was not going home until early in the morning. I told her mother that she went to the co-work’s birthday party. Next the day morning, I called my friend and told her that she should be calls her mother if she couldn’t go home. She said she couldn’t heard the phone because she went to KTV room. Single people don’t worry about time if they go to somewhere or meet with their friends. Second, single life can dominate money by self. Single people can buy something if they want it because they can control their finances.
For example, I wanted buy a famous watch when I was single. I looked at all kinds of watches and chosen my favitous one which is Rolex watch is from Switzerland. I really like it. I bought it even though I used my one month salary. I didn’t need to care of price because I could control my money. I lived in my family members in that time. My family could support my food. Sometimes, I spent all my money in the first day of month, but I didn’t worry about finance. Third, single life’s responsibility is more freedom. I believe as a single person, he/she don’t worry about their responsibility.
They can do something which what they want. I wanted to joined Army in China when I single. One day, I went to recruiting station and talked to recruiting officer. I really wanted to become a soldier at that time. They told me that I needed to leave my parents three years when I enjoyed Army. I don’t have a brother or a sister. If I joined to Army, it would be nobody takes care of my parents. After one week, I made decided which is joined to Army. I went to recruiting office again. When I went to home and told my parents my decidsion. My parents wanted that I took care of myself. I can choose my decidsin.
We don’t have enough freedom in our married life. First, married life’s activity is limited. Generally, married people must go home after they get off work. For example, I married and lived in San Jose. After I get off work, I had to go home. One day, my best friend called me and wanted meet with me. We went to a restaurant. Two hours later, my husband called me. I needed to go home and made dinning. I told my friend I needed to go home even though we had so much to tell each other. I drove to home. Second, married people cannot control their finances by self because they were married.
Commonly, married people are co-dominant money. For example, my co-worker was married and wanted to buy a diamond ring. She have to tell her spouse and made a decide. She always tells me that she can buy everything which what does her want when she was a single. Now, she has to talk to her husband every time. Unfortunately, married life must understand their responsibililty in their family. I had to think about my responsibility after I married. I worked for a big company. I was very enjoyed my job because I could study something in my job. My parents were not live with me when my child two years old.
My parents-in-law were not live with me, too. My husband must go to work. We don’t have enough money to pay childcare. So, my husband wanted I gave up my job. I thought about three days, even though I felt very helpless I make a decidesion which abandoned my job. I was so sad at that time. I thought that I shouldn’t get married. Now, I can understand when a person married, he/she is more responsibility. They need to think a role in a family. Inclusly, whether it is behavioral, economic, or duties, the single life is more freedom married life.